Family Rules: Helping Stepfamilies and Single Parents Build Happy HomesKensington Books, 1998 - 164 Seiten Parenting today is tougher than ever before. More than 60% of American families are divorced, repartnered, or single parent households. In 80% of couples, both partners work outside the home. Parents everywhere feel overwhelmed, and worse, so do their kids. "Family Rules" is an extraordinary book that will bring back an orderly, well-run household, where people are respectful and polite, share the housework, and actually enjoy being together! The secret is straightforward, no-nonsense principles that make meals, bedtime, after school, leisure activities, and even the busiest mornings orderly, predictable, and manageable. This book incorporates essential lessons for making house rules work, including how to: set them up in your house; enforce rules the first time, and every time; establish them for kids shuttling between two households; use rules to make dinner special every night; know the ones that must never be broken -- especially by you; and more. "Family Rules" not only provides the tools you need to create a happy, well-run family, but the parenting skills to develop character, self-discipline, and self-esteem in children. Easy to institute and easy to follow, "Family Rules" are the best way to bring stability and tranquillity to your home. |
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Dont Let Guilt Run the Way You Parent | 3 |
Dont Be a Pushover Parent | 6 |
RULES FOR SUCCESS AS A PARENT | 13 |
GoodPartnering Skills | 19 |
Dont Fight in Front of the Children | 25 |
Interact as a Family Play Board Games | 31 |
Give the Gift of Structure to Your Family | 37 |
Have a Vision of How You Would Like Your | 39 |
Restaurant Behavior | 88 |
How to Make Holidays Happy Days | 94 |
Know the Rituals Surrounding Gift Giving | 95 |
Blood Ties Versus Sexual Ties | 101 |
The Passport Story | 107 |
Learn to CoParent Its Good for Your | 113 |
Explain the Divorce Give Kids | 114 |
Be Aware That Recoupling Can Be Hazardous | 120 |
Be Predictable and Consistent | 52 |
Be Aware That the Tone of Voice You Use | 53 |
Dont Encourage Excuses | 66 |
Use the Family Rules Chart | 70 |
The Good News | 76 |
The Sixteen Steps of a Family Meal | 82 |
Have Realistic Expectations | 125 |
TOOLS FOR FAMILY 2000 | 135 |
Tools for Money Management | 147 |
Tools for Constructing Your Vision of | 159 |
About the Stepfamily Foundation 165 | |